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Whether your marriage is headed for divorce, or the two of you are ready to seek professional help, there is one thing YOU can do that may have a significant impact on your marriage, and the way that your spouse perceives you. Here’s how…

I receive emails daily from people who ask me for advice, people who share their comments about articles I’ve written over the years and sometimes, I receive emails from people criticizing my point of view.Husband and wife arguing

All of which I am perfectly fine with.

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Divorce is wrought with disappointment because of the broken promise of a two-parent family. In this article, Divorced Dad Len Stauffenger provides some practical tips to re-grow that trust with your kids and preventing yet another divorce.

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This is going to sound like a cliché, and rightfully so, but trust is the cornerstone of every relationship. Without it, a relationship is full of misery and doomed to fail.

This is going to sound like a cliché, and rightfully so, but trust is the cornerstone of every relationship. Without it, a relationship is full of misery and doomed to fail. With extramarital affairs, divorce and failed relationships becoming more and more prevalent in today’s society, many people are becoming reluctant to place their faith in their partners. They view their partners with suspicion, while questioning their every word.

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Going through a divorce can really stir up emotions like margaritas in a blender. But if you’re going to be the best parent for your kids, you need to turn the blender off and learn how to keep your cool.

In the first few years of being divorced, we find that our emotions go through huge vacillations. One minute you’re a calm, kind loving parent - maybe a little overindulgent - and the next minute you have no patience or tolerance for the kids you truly love because now you’re irritated. It’s a huge flip flop, and it’s probably something you ought to consider getting under control, because while it might be normal, in the end it isn’t productive for either you or your children. You only get one chance to raise them right.

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When divorced parents expend a lot of energy pointing fingers of blame at one another, the children suffer. Here are some interesting words to help you become more objective for your children’s sake.

Blame. We all do it. We blame others for things that they deserve to be blamed for and things that they probably don’t deserve. Placing blame seems to be a technique that we learn very early on. When you think of children even as young as two or three years old, you can hear them saying, “She did it. It wasn’t me!”

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Are you thinking about getting remarried? Make sure you’re doing it for the right reasons…

Remarrying is a big decision. The good news is that 75% of divorced people do remarry. The bad news is that at least 60% of those remarriages will end in a re-divorce.

Not being ready to remarry is one of the biggest problems I see with my coaching clients. Today, lets look at one of the ways you can KNOW you’re not ready.

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What exactly is viral negativity in the Law of Attraction?  How about we give you an example of how it works.

What exactly is viral negativity in the Law of Attraction?  How about we give you an example of how it works.

Let’s say you go to a get together with a group of your friends.  At this get together, there is one couple missing that usually attends every time.  You ask where the couple is and one of your friends says, “You haven’t heard?  Jack and Angie broke up last week.  They’ve been together for over three years and Angie found out that he had a mistress.  She is so broken hearted.  Jack was so mean to her.  He left the house and has filed for divorce.  He’s living with his mistress.?  Well, to say the least, you are shocked.  You thought for sure that Jack and Angie would stay together forever.

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When couples separate questions relating to arrangements for their children can become an emotional nightmare. Parents can find it very difficult to separate their roles as parents from that of spouse or even their inner child. Emotions of anger and hate can make it very difficult to discriminate between what is right and wrong. This is bad news and bad timing for the children, the innocent victims of the parental separation, as the sole question should be what is in the best interests of the children?

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Most happily married couples will admit that finding time for making love is difficult when children are in the house. The loving couple will make dates with each other to steal away when the children are at a friend’s house or otherwise occupied. These parents understand that their child does not need to be aware of their sexual lives. If this child sees his parents treat each other with loving displays of affection, he or she will see love. Yet even this child will be traumatized if he walks in on his parents during lovemaking. The rules need not be different after a divorce.

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Rhode Island Divorces are hard enough without judicial bias. Judicial bias is when a judge or magistrate in the position to make a decision in your Rhode Island Divorce listens more to one parties’ position than the other parties’ position and gives that position unjust weight in the decision making process.

It happens. It’s no mystery. Judges and magistrates are people. They are not machines. While they are set on the course of impartiality as part of their duty, you cannot strip the humanity out of them.

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